I need some help rendering

I never noticed this post until today.

If a scene suddenly starts taking a long time to render, it's likely that something has been done in the scene that needs to be "fixed" because the render time has jumped.

on the other side of the coin, if you think the scene is perfectly fine, I would do as you say and solicit help getting the job done... or just buy a new computer, as the cost of the farm for a big job would be about the same as getting a new machine these days.